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013: Dr. Stan Tatkin, LMFT and Author on The Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy

Dr. Stan Tatkin, LMFT
Dr. Stan Tatkin, LMFT
Dr. Stan Tatkin, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of Wired For Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship, recalls how the kindness of his therapist and feeling loved helped to shape him through his own self-actualization and help mold him as a psychotherapist. Stan also shares about the approach he developed called the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) which assists couples in co-regulating at a nervous system level to create positive experiences of excitement, positive experiences of relaxation, and as a team, the couple can shorten and alleviate negative experiences or distress. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.

Here are a few of my favorite insights that Stan shared on the show:

Concerning His Growth as a Person and Psychotherapist: “I’ve come to see that attention and presence is very connected to developing feelings of love… Maybe that’s a function of age. Maybe it’s a function of gratitude as well. Maybe it’s a function of the kind of work I do… it’s all of the above.”
Concerning the Benefits of Psychotherapy: “I think there’s no better schooling. Because it is really like going to school, we should call it education instead of therapy. It’s going to relationship school with another person who can help heal the injuries, heal the experiences, and create new experiences for us that we carry forward into other relationships. For those people who think that therapy is for the mentally ill, that is no longer the case. Therapy is for Everybody!”
Concerning Healing and Growth: “Our medicine has been and will always be people. Relationship.”

 

Click Here to Connect with Stan @ StanTatkin.com

Click Here to Visit The PACT Institute that Stan Founded


 

Pick up Stan’s book Wired For Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build A Secure Relationship

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pick up Stan’s book Love and War in Intimate Relationships: Connection, Disconnection, and Mutual Regulation in Couple Therapy co-authored with Marion Solomon

 

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Pick Up Stan’s audiobook Your Brain on Love : The Neurobiology of Healthy Relationships @ Amazon or you can get it for FREE @ FREESHRINKBOOK.COM

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012: Dr. Barbara Steffens, LPCC and Author on Partner Betrayal Trauma and Sexual Addiction

Dr. Barbara Steffens, LPCC, BCC
Dr. Barbara Steffens, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and co-author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal, shares about her own healing journey through Partner Betrayal Trauma as a result of her husband’s sexual betrayal. Barbara also shares about how her work has created a paradigm shift in the treatment approach for those who have been sexually betrayed by a partner. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.
One of my favorite things that Barbara shared on the show was: “This is about trauma. This isn’t about codependency…”
Visit Barbara’s website DrBarbaraSteffens.com
For Psychotherapists, Coaches, and Other Helping Professionals: APSATS, the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists

 

Click here to pick up a copy of Barbara and Marsha’s book Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal

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006: Brian Kypta, LMFT on a Sense of Belonging and Emotionally Focused Therapy

Brian Kypta, LMFT
Brian Kypta, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Brian Kypta, is on the show this week sharing about his struggle with finding a sense of belonging throughout his life. Brian also talks with David about how Emotionally Focused Therapy is helping his clients to relate to themselves and their loved ones in the ‘here and now’ of psychotherapy. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.

 

Check Out Brian’s Website

 

Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson

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Love Sense by Dr. Sue Johnson

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Dr. Sue Johnson on Emotionally Focused Therapy

 

 

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003: Kathleen Mates-Youngman, Author of the Couples Therapy Workbook

Kathleen Mates-Youngman, LMFT
Kathleen Mates-Youngman, LMFT

 

Kathleen Mates-Youngman, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, is our guest on the show this week. Kathleen shares about her struggle with anxiety and panic attacks and how that has helped shape her heart as a therapist. She also talks about Schema Therapy in breaking negative thought patterns and her book on helping couples connect and love one another daily. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.
Visit Kathleen’s Website

 

 

Kathleen’s book the Couples Therapy Workbook: 30 Guided Conversations to Re-Connect Relationships

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Reinventing Your Life: The Breakthrough Program to End Negative Behavior and Feel Great Again – Book by Jeffrey E. Young, creator of Schema Therapy that Kathleen mentioned on the show.

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