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013: Dr. Stan Tatkin, LMFT and Author on The Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy

Dr. Stan Tatkin, LMFT
Dr. Stan Tatkin, LMFT
Dr. Stan Tatkin, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of Wired For Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship, recalls how the kindness of his therapist and feeling loved helped to shape him through his own self-actualization and help mold him as a psychotherapist. Stan also shares about the approach he developed called the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) which assists couples in co-regulating at a nervous system level to create positive experiences of excitement, positive experiences of relaxation, and as a team, the couple can shorten and alleviate negative experiences or distress. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.

Here are a few of my favorite insights that Stan shared on the show:

Concerning His Growth as a Person and Psychotherapist: “I’ve come to see that attention and presence is very connected to developing feelings of love… Maybe that’s a function of age. Maybe it’s a function of gratitude as well. Maybe it’s a function of the kind of work I do… it’s all of the above.”
Concerning the Benefits of Psychotherapy: “I think there’s no better schooling. Because it is really like going to school, we should call it education instead of therapy. It’s going to relationship school with another person who can help heal the injuries, heal the experiences, and create new experiences for us that we carry forward into other relationships. For those people who think that therapy is for the mentally ill, that is no longer the case. Therapy is for Everybody!”
Concerning Healing and Growth: “Our medicine has been and will always be people. Relationship.”

 

Click Here to Connect with Stan @ StanTatkin.com

Click Here to Visit The PACT Institute that Stan Founded


 

Pick up Stan’s book Wired For Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build A Secure Relationship

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pick up Stan’s book Love and War in Intimate Relationships: Connection, Disconnection, and Mutual Regulation in Couple Therapy co-authored with Marion Solomon

 

Love and War

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pick Up Stan’s audiobook Your Brain on Love : The Neurobiology of Healthy Relationships @ Amazon or you can get it for FREE @ FREESHRINKBOOK.COM

Your Brain On Love

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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012: Dr. Barbara Steffens, LPCC and Author on Partner Betrayal Trauma and Sexual Addiction

Dr. Barbara Steffens, LPCC, BCC
Dr. Barbara Steffens, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and co-author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal, shares about her own healing journey through Partner Betrayal Trauma as a result of her husband’s sexual betrayal. Barbara also shares about how her work has created a paradigm shift in the treatment approach for those who have been sexually betrayed by a partner. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.
One of my favorite things that Barbara shared on the show was: “This is about trauma. This isn’t about codependency…”
Visit Barbara’s website DrBarbaraSteffens.com
For Psychotherapists, Coaches, and Other Helping Professionals: APSATS, the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists

 

Click here to pick up a copy of Barbara and Marsha’s book Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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007: Catherine Auman, LMFT and Author of Shortcuts to Mindfulness

Catherine Auman, LMFT
Catherine Auman, LMFT
Catherine Auman, LMFT and author of Shortcuts to Mindfulness: 100 Ways to Personal & Spiritual Growth, shares about how mindfulness and meditation have helped her through chronic depression. Catherine shares about how she uses Transpersonal Psychology to help her clients move towards change. Catherine also explains the benefits of mindfulness to help with anxiety. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.
One of my favorite quotes from Catherine during the show that she asks her clients in therapy is: “How would you know your life is better?  And let’s get there.”
Visit Catherine’s Website

 

Pick up Catherine’s Book Shortcuts to Mindfulness: 100 Ways to Personal & Spiritual Growth

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Check out Dan Harris’ book that I mentioned at the beginning of the show. Dan shares his journey of adopting mindfulness and meditation on his journey of change: 10% Happier: How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge, and Found Self-Help That Actually Works–A True Story

Dan Harris Happier

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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006: Brian Kypta, LMFT on a Sense of Belonging and Emotionally Focused Therapy

Brian Kypta, LMFT
Brian Kypta, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Brian Kypta, is on the show this week sharing about his struggle with finding a sense of belonging throughout his life. Brian also talks with David about how Emotionally Focused Therapy is helping his clients to relate to themselves and their loved ones in the ‘here and now’ of psychotherapy. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.

 

Check Out Brian’s Website

 

Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson

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Love Sense by Dr. Sue Johnson

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Dr. Sue Johnson on Emotionally Focused Therapy

 

 

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004: Bill O’Hanlon, From Depression to a Life of Possibilities

Bill O'Hanlon, LMFT
Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT
Bill O’Hanlon, author, psychotherapist, and international speaker shares his journey through depression and childhood sexual abuse to a life of possibilities. Bill also shares how moving through the four energies of Blissed, Blessed, Pissed, and Dissed help to shape his healing journey. Whether you are searching for hope through psychotherapy or are a budding writer working on your first book, Bill is a true inspiration. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio.
Visit Bill’s Website

 

Click Here to sign up for a 30-Day Free Trial with Audible.com and get Bill’s book, The Change Your Life Book, for free. Once you sign up, just search for Bill’s book and download for free! 

 

 

Do One Thing Different: Ten Simple Ways to Change Your Life

Do One Thing Different

 

 

 

 

 

Invitation to Possibility Land
 Invitation to Possibility Land

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In Search of Solutions: A New Direction in Psychotherapy 
In Search of Solution

 

 

 

 

 

My Voice Will Go With You: The Teaching Tales of Milton H. Erickson by Sidney Rosen
My Voice Will Go With You
Bill’s Free Report for Writers:  www.getyourbookwritten.com

 

 

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002: Bob Parkins, LMFT on Isolation and the Risk to Connect

Bob Parkins, LMFT
What about Bob? This week’s show features Bob Parkins, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, in private practice. Bob shares about his own struggle with isolation and how that has helped him to understand this struggle in the clients he sees. Bob also talks about his passion for group therapy for sexual compulsivity and addiction. Push the play button above to listen to the show or use the links below to listen on iTunes or Stitcher Radio. So, Baby Step your way over and have a listen. Take care.
Connect with Bob

 

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